Javascript to play specific song in central MP3 Player

Hi,

I'm trying to figure out a way to control a flash file via JavaScript so that when a song title link is clicked in the HTML file a song plays in an embedded flash file.

An example of this can be seen here: http://nopiano.com/composition.html

From the research I've done so far, this site seems to use  a deprecated code, "audio.js" to achieve this.

I've found an API called Sound Manager 2 that might work, but it doesn't really do what I want it to.

None of the solutions I've found really maintain the clean simplistic style on the site I'm developing. My ultimate goal is for this to work as a form where the user clicks the link, listens to a short sample and then has the option to select a toggle next to the link. Finally they'll be able to click a submit button and a list of songs that the potential client wants performed would be submitted to me.

The Beta version can be found here: http://www.harmoniousmusic.com/beta/samples.html
The Flash MP3 player on this site works dynamically from an XML file play list. There is no interactivity between the HTML/CSS to the MP3 player yet.

I'm pretty new at web development, but this is by far the most advanced thing I've tried to figure out yet. Any help would be appreciated.