The only product I have seen that does what you want is this:
http://www.vncscan.com/
But you will have to pay for it (30 day trial)
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Browse All TopicsOk, I am remotely connected to a PC running VNC as a service. What I am needing to do is reboot the machine to safe mode with networking and be sure VNC is running after it boots to safe mode with networking. I can run VNC as a service or an app so with safe mode only loading the basics, im not sure if the VNC service will also be started or not. If I were to make a startup item in the start folder, it probably wont run either... so any ideas here would be helpful.
THanks.
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The only product I have seen that does what you want is this:
http://www.vncscan.com/
But you will have to pay for it (30 day trial)
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by: and235100Posted on 2006-08-06 at 13:23:44ID: 17260018
No - unfortunately this probably will not be possible - remember, only WOL is active at shutdown (S5) - so nothing is running. Therefore, the remote functions will not be accessible until Windows boots (so no F8 at the Windows screen etc.)
sk(0)parti tion(1)\WI NDOWS tition(1)\ WINDOWS="M icrosoft Windows XP Professional" /fastdetect tition(1)\ WINDOWS="M icrosoft Windows XP Professional Safe" /fastdetect
There is a way, but it isn't pretty:
Edit boot.ini :
[boot loader]
timeout=30
default=multi(0)disk(0)rdi
[operating systems]
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)par
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)par
Then:
Start the System Configuration Utility by clicking [Start] [Run] and typing msconfig, then click [OK].
Click the BOOT.INI tab.
Highlight the boot line you added with the word "Safe" or whatever word you chose to add above.
Check the /SAFEBOOT + NETWORK option in the Boot Options box and use the radio buttons to add whatever options you prefer. I'd suggest the MINIMAL option.
Click [Apply] and [OK] and Restart when prompted.
You would then have to get the VNC service you are using to run in Safe Mode with Networking - tricky to say the least...
Will have a look...