Hi Everyone;
I have been involved in a dating relationship with a 37 year old woman for almost a year now. And, I am 44 years old myself, but, I do not think that is enough age difference to matter. Anyway, here is what's going on. Basically, we seem to quarrel or argue a great deal. Often, 2 or 3 times a week. What really bothers me about the entire thing is the fact that the arguements are often over things which are insignificant. For instance, I can bring up the weather, and she may say something combative like "what does that have to do with what we were talking about". Due to her sensitivity, which is noticed by others who work with her, I feel like I constantly have to watch what I say or don't say, what I do or don't do, and so forth. In other words, I am not totally sure how to be myself around her.
With this comprehensive picture given, should I continue my relationship with her? I do love her and she says that she loves me. But, is it possible to love someone and frequently argue with that individual?
In any case, any personal or professional input given to this personal post will be appreciated. I have thought about perhaps seeking out counseling services with having her being a part of it as well. But, I am not sure at this point.
I look forward to hearing from everyone.
Thank you
George
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