Christian churches in San Diego or good denominations/organizations?

I've been looking for a good church in San Diego for some time. I'm really picky I guess, but I can't find any that teach sound doctrine, and don't have a powerful pastoral heirarchy to tap all the enthusiasm out of being a Christ follower.  I'm looking for any kind of organization, perhaps even forming one of like minded people who believe in the New Testament concept of church.

There are too many traditions of men. What I have found so far are either really dynamic sermons, and lots of programs, but a lack of zeal for sound doctrine. Or on the other hand a cult like church with a strong teaching of doctrine, but no room for various beliefs, and lots of control.

I'm really discouraged about modern churches, I'm just trying to be obedient, and not neglect the assembly of the believers, but I'm about to stop going altogether, because I can't stand the circus atmosphere, and the controlling pastors. I think these pastors are good hearted people, but they are just locked in the traditions of men, and see their job as a way to make money while doing good works for people. Nothing wrong with that I suppose, but sometimes it seems like the Bible is being watered down, or there is too much control over the moving of the Holy Spirit. It's also dangerous I think to focus on what one person is saying and give him the pulpit. It's almost like idolatry.