Filtered Data View Update

The problem I am having is that I am using a filtered dataview in a datagrid.  It is filtered on a yes/no column called printed.  Eventually the user highlights the rows they want to print and clicks the print button.   First this clears the print dataset then causes the highlighted rows to be written to the print dataset, that part works fine.  After that is done I want to mark the printed as yes in all the rows that have been printed.  Unfortunately as soon as you mark the yes/no printed it filters it out causing the for loop to lose it place which means it either starts marking the wrong row or go outside the bounds of the dataview causing an error.  I have tried unfiltering the dataview before I start the print process but that causes the rows highlighted by the user to become unhighlighted. The reason I'm putting the choices into an arraylist and doing the later is for the same reason.

Here is how the datagrid is setup with the dataview and filter.
            forwardinglisttempset = New DataSet
            flda.Fill(forwardinglisttempset)
            forwardinglistgrid.DataSource = forwardinglisttempset.Tables(0)
            forwardinglistview = New DataView(forwardinglistgrid.DataSource)
            forwardinglistgrid.DataSource = forwardinglistview
            flda.TableMappings.Clear()
            flda.TableMappings.Add("forwardinglisttempset.Tables(0)", "forwardinglistview")
            Dim command_builder = New Odbc.OdbcCommandBuilder(flda)
            forwardinglistview.RowFilter = "printed = " & False

Here is the code that is activated when the print button is clicked:
Try
                'setup
                Dim marked As New ArrayList
                Flprintds1.Clear()
                flprintda.Fill(Flprintds1)
                Dim command_builder = New Odbc.OdbcCommandBuilder(flprintda)
                'delete current print record
                For Each tr As DataRow In Flprintds1.Tables(0).Rows
                    tr.Delete()
                Next
                'add highlighted rows for printing
                For i As Integer = 0 To forwardinglistview.Count - 1
                    If forwardinglistgrid.IsSelected(i) Then
                        rowTemp = Flprintds1.Tables(0).NewRow()
                        rowTemp.Item("trackingnumber") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 1).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("lastname") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 2).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("firstname") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 3).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("middlename") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 4).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("address1") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 9).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("address2") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 10).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("city") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 11).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("state") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 12).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("zip") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 13).ToString)
                        rowTemp.Item("country") = fis(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 14).ToString)
                       'add printed rows to be marked later
                        marked.Add(forwardinglistgrid.Item(i, 1))
                        Flprintds1.Tables(0).Rows.Add(rowTemp)
                    End If
                Next

                'mark highlighted rows as printed
                For i As Integer = 0 To marked.Count - 1
                    forwardinglistgrid.Item(marked(i), 15) = True
                Next

                'instert empties for blanks on label sheet
                For j As Integer = 1 To empties.Text
                    rowTemp = Flprintds1.Tables(0).NewRow()
                    rowTemp.Item("trackingnumber") = Format(Date.Now, "yyyyMMddHHmmssfffffff") & j
                    Flprintds1.Tables(0).Rows.Add(rowTemp)
                Next

                'update the print table in the database
                flprintda.Update(Flprintds1)
                'activate the print macro in the database DEACTIVATED FOR TESTING
                'RunMacro("printforwrdinglistreport")
                showforwardgrid()
            Catch ex As Exception
                errorwrite(ex.ToString)
            End TryStart Free Trial