You might want to look into tunneling:
http://www.ssh.com/support
corey
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I created a tcp stream client/server winsock program in C++, they work fine if both machine are directly connected to the modem. However I am in a situation where the client, server or both can be behind routers, and I am unable to establish client-server connections.
I don't want to change the router settings and I don't want the communication to go through some intermediate server.
Are there any software solutions to establish socket connection directly when either party can be behind a router ? (some sample source code would be appreciated :) )
Thanks
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You might want to look into tunneling:
http://www.ssh.com/support
corey
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by: jaime_olivaresPosted on 2005-05-16 at 14:08:31ID: 14014241
modern router have firewall features
if you want to communicate trough a specific socket port, you must ensure it is unlocked in router configuration.
Or you can try to use a standard port like 80 or 21 but not so recommendable.