I tried both, the first reply had a dash in the wrong place , the second one I put in all of the information and saw what I thought was a problem originally but after removing some old config stuff it still did not work, I am going to put a chunk of the logs for this as see. I may just wipe the device and start over, one bad thing about taking over where someone else worked for a while is all the strange stuff that you are not sure should be there. Of course these are in reverse order with the first at the bottom.

IP = <Remote IP>, Error: Unable to remove PeerTblEntry
IP = <Remote IP>, Removing peer from peer table failed, no match!
IP = <Remote IP>, sending delete/delete with reason message
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE SA MM:1921ce35 terminating:  flags 0x01000022, refcnt 0, tuncnt 0
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE MM Initiator FSM error history (struct &0x3ae3bc0)  <state>, <event>:  MM_DONE, EV_ERROR-->MM_WAIT_MSG4, EV_TIMEOUT-->MM_WAIT_MSG4, NullEvent-->MM_SND_MSG3, EV_SND_MSG-->MM_SND_MSG3, EV_START_TMR-->MM_SND_MSG3, EV_RESEND_MSG-->MM_WAIT_MSG4, EV_TIMEOUT-->MM_WAIT_MSG4, NullEvent
IP = <Remote IP>, Information Exchange processing failed
IP = <Remote IP>, Received an un-encrypted INVALID_COOKIE notify message, dropping
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + NOTIFY (11) + NONE (0) total length : 68
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + NOTIFY (11) + NONE (0) total length : 68
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RESENDING Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + KE (4) + NONCE (10) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + NONE (0) total length : 224
IP = <Remote IP>, Information Exchange processing failed
IP = <Remote IP>, Received an un-encrypted INVALID_COOKIE notify message, dropping
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + NOTIFY (11) + NONE (0) total length : 68
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + NOTIFY (11) + NONE (0) total length : 68
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RESENDING Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + KE (4) + NONCE (10) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + NONE (0) total length : 224
IP = <Remote IP>, Information Exchange processing failed
IP = <Remote IP>, Received an un-encrypted INVALID_COOKIE notify message, dropping
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + NOTIFY (11) + NONE (0) total length : 68
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + NOTIFY (11) + NONE (0) total length : 68
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RESENDING Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + KE (4) + NONCE (10) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + NONE (0) total length : 224
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE SENDING Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + KE (4) + NONCE (10) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + VENDOR (13) + NONE (0) total length : 224
IP = <Remote IP>, Send Altiga/Cisco VPN3000/Cisco ASA GW VID
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing VID payload
IP = <Remote IP>, Constructing ASA spoofing IOS Vendor ID payload (version: 1.0.0, capabilities: 20000001)
IP = <Remote IP>, Send IOS VID
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing xauth V6 VID payload
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing Cisco Unity VID payload
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing nonce payload
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing ke payload
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE Peer included IKE fragmentation capability flags:  Main Mode:        True  Aggressive Mode:  True
IP = <Remote IP>, Received Fragmentation VID
IP = <Remote IP>, processing VID payload
IP = <Remote IP>, Oakley proposal is acceptable
IP = <Remote IP>, processing SA payload
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE RECEIVED Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + SA (1) + VENDOR (13) + NONE (0) total length : 108
Built outbound UDP connection 1131 for outside:<Remote IP>/500 (<Remote IP>/500) to NP Identity Ifc:72.4.4.221/500 (72.4.4.221/500)
Built local-host outside:<Remote IP>
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE_DECODE SENDING Message (msgid=0) with payloads : HDR + SA (1) + VENDOR (13) + NONE (0) total length : 108
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing Fragmentation VID + extended capabilities payload
IP = <Remote IP>, constructing ISAKMP SA payload
IP = <Remote IP>, IKE Initiator: New Phase 1, Intf inside, IKE Peer <Remote IP>  local Proxy Address 192.168.5.0, remote Proxy Address 192.168.50.0,  Crypto map (newmap)

Thanks for everything.

What they gave me was their remote IP ,their internal IPs which was 192.168.50.0 255.255.255.0, then in order listed on the form with no descriptions
3DES
SHA
Group 1
Lifetime 86400
I modified your example to these when I used it. (hash and group)

Result of the command: "sh isakmp"

There are no isakmp sas

Global IKE Statistics
Active Tunnels: 0
Previous Tunnels: 0
In Octets: 2808
In Packets: 36
In Drop Packets: 27
In Notifys: 27
In P2 Exchanges: 0
In P2 Exchange Invalids: 0
In P2 Exchange Rejects: 0
In P2 Sa Delete Requests: 0
Out Octets: 9324
Out Packets: 45
Out Drop Packets: 0
Out Notifys: 0
Out P2 Exchanges: 0
Out P2 Exchange Invalids: 0
Out P2 Exchange Rejects: 0
Out P2 Sa Delete Requests: 0
Initiator Tunnels: 9
Initiator Fails: 9
Responder Fails: 0
System Capacity Fails: 0
Auth Fails: 0
Decrypt Fails: 0
Hash Valid Fails: 0
No Sa Fails: 0

Global IPSec over TCP Statistics
--------------------------------
Embryonic connections: 0
Active connections: 0
Previous connections: 0
Inbound packets: 0
Inbound dropped packets: 0
Outbound packets: 0
Outbound dropped packets: 0
RST packets: 0
Recevied ACK heart-beat packets: 0
Bad headers: 0
Bad trailers: 0
Timer failures: 0
Checksum errors: 0
Internal errors: 0

The show crypto map does not work nor does the sh tunnel-group.

Result of the command: "sh crypto ?"

exec mode commands/options:
  accelerator  Show accelerator operational data
  ca           Show certification authority policy
  ipsec        Show IPsec operational data
  isakmp       Show ISAKMP operational data
  key          Show long term public keys
  protocol     Show protocol statistics

Result of the command: "sh t?"

exec mode commands/options:
  tcpstat    tech-support    terminal    time-range
  track      traffic  

I mostly feel the problem is on their end, basically it went they sent us a form to fill out with our network information( I didnt know about it), some time went by and they sent us that information so I punched it in and it didnt work. I asked how they knew about this network and they said Oh we need to fill out this form, so then we did and sent it off, well I am not sure if I am getting anyone up there to check and just make sure, they just say we have the form and were OK don't bother us, I just wanted to know if/what the error messages they are getting but I can not get much help out of them so I want to make sure our end is as good.
Thanks,
Jarrid Graham

Here is the config cleaned up (hope not too much) I just got to thinking they use the cisco VPN to connect from home to this network, would that effect it's ability to connect out? seems like it shouldnt effect anything but who knows.
Thanks.


ASA Version 7.2(3)
!
hostname LFM-ASA5505

names

!
interface Vlan1
 nameif inside
 security-level 100
 ip address 192.168.5.59 255.255.255.0
!
interface Vlan2
 nameif outside
 security-level 0
 ip address 1.1.1.1 255.255.255.224
!
interface Ethernet0/0
 switchport access vlan 2
!
interface Ethernet0/1
!
interface Ethernet0/2
!
interface Ethernet0/3
!
interface Ethernet0/4
!
interface Ethernet0/5
!
interface Ethernet0/6
!
interface Ethernet0/7
!

ftp mode passive
clock timezone EST -5
clock summer-time EDT recurring
dns server-group DefaultDNS
 domain-name LFM.COM

access-list LittonFamilyMedicine_splitTunnelAcl standard permit 192.168.5.0 255.255.255.0
access-list outside_access_in extended permit icmp any any
access-list inside_nat0_outbound extended permit ip 192.168.6.0 255.255.255.0 192.168.5.0 255.255.255.0
access-list inside_nat0_outbound extended permit ip any 192.168.6.0 255.255.255.224
access-list inside_nat0_outbound extended permit ip 192.168.5.0 255.255.255.0 192.168.50.0 255.255.255.0
access-list outside_1_cryptomap extended permit ip 192.168.5.0 255.255.255.0 192.168.50.0 255.255.255.0
pager lines 24
logging enable
logging timestamp
logging buffer-size 131072
logging asdm-buffer-size 512
logging buffered informational
logging asdm debugging
logging flash-minimum-free 30760
logging flash-maximum-allocation 10240
mtu inside 1500
mtu outside 1500
ip local pool LFM 192.168.6.10-192.168.6.20 mask 255.255.255.0
icmp unreachable rate-limit 1 burst-size 1
asdm image disk0:/asdm-523.bin
no asdm history enable
arp timeout 14400
global (outside) 1 interface
nat (inside) 0 access-list inside_nat0_outbound
nat (inside) 1 0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0

access-group outside_access_in in interface outside
route outside 0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 1.1.1.1 1
!
router rip
 network 192.168.3.0
 network 192.168.5.0
!
timeout xlate 3:00:00
timeout conn 1:00:00 half-closed 0:10:00 udp 0:02:00 icmp 0:00:02
timeout sunrpc 0:10:00 h323 0:05:00 h225 1:00:00 mgcp 0:05:00 mgcp-pat 0:05:00
timeout sip 0:30:00 sip_media 0:02:00 sip-invite 0:03:00 sip-disconnect 0:02:00
timeout uauth 0:05:00 absolute
http server enable 500
http 192.168.5.0 255.255.255.0 inside
http 0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 outside
http 192.168.6.0 255.255.255.0 outside
no snmp-server location
no snmp-server contact
snmp-server enable traps snmp authentication linkup linkdown coldstart
crypto ipsec transform-set ESP-3DES-SHA esp-3des esp-sha-hmac
crypto dynamic-map outside_dyn_map 20 set pfs
crypto dynamic-map outside_dyn_map 20 set transform-set ESP-3DES-SHA
crypto map outside_map 1 match address outside_1_cryptomap
crypto map outside_map 1 set peer <stupid remote IP that doesnt work>
crypto map outside_map 1 set transform-set ESP-3DES-SHA
crypto map outside_map 1 set nat-t-disable
crypto map outside_map 65535 ipsec-isakmp dynamic outside_dyn_map
crypto map outside_map interface outside
crypto isakmp identity address
crypto isakmp enable outside
crypto isakmp policy 10
 authentication pre-share
 encryption 3des
 hash sha
 group 2
 lifetime 86400
crypto isakmp policy 30
 authentication pre-share
 encryption 3des
 hash sha
 group 1
 lifetime 86400
telnet timeout 5
ssh 192.168.6.0 255.255.255.0 inside
ssh 192.168.6.0 255.255.255.0 outside
ssh timeout 5
console timeout 5
management-access inside
dhcpd auto_config outside
!
dhcpd address 192.168.5.60-192.168.5.91 inside
!

!
class-map inspection_default
 match default-inspection-traffic
!
!
policy-map type inspect dns preset_dns_map
 parameters
  message-length maximum 512
policy-map global_policy
 class inspection_default
  inspect dns preset_dns_map
  inspect ftp
  inspect h323 h225
  inspect h323 ras
  inspect rsh
  inspect rtsp
  inspect esmtp
  inspect sqlnet
  inspect skinny
  inspect sunrpc
  inspect xdmcp
  inspect sip
  inspect netbios
  inspect tftp
!
service-policy global_policy global
ntp server LFM_SERVER02 source inside
group-policy DfltGrpPolicy attributes
 banner none
 wins-server none
 dns-server none
 dhcp-network-scope none
 vpn-access-hours none
 vpn-simultaneous-logins 3
 vpn-idle-timeout 30
 vpn-session-timeout none
 vpn-filter none
 vpn-tunnel-protocol IPSec l2tp-ipsec webvpn
 password-storage disable
 ip-comp disable
 re-xauth disable
 group-lock none
 pfs disable
 ipsec-udp enable
 ipsec-udp-port 10000
 split-tunnel-policy tunnelall
 split-tunnel-network-list none
 default-domain none
 split-dns none
 intercept-dhcp 255.255.255.255 disable
 secure-unit-authentication disable
 user-authentication disable
 user-authentication-idle-timeout 30
 ip-phone-bypass disable
 leap-bypass disable
 nem disable
 backup-servers keep-client-config
 msie-proxy server none
 msie-proxy method no-modify
 msie-proxy except-list none
 msie-proxy local-bypass disable
 nac disable
 nac-sq-period 300
 nac-reval-period 36000
 nac-default-acl none
 address-pools value LFM
 smartcard-removal-disconnect enable
 client-firewall none
 client-access-rule none
 webvpn
  functions url-entry
  html-content-filter none
  homepage none
  keep-alive-ignore 4
  http-comp gzip
  filter none
  url-list none
  customization value DfltCustomization
  port-forward none
  port-forward-name value Application Access
  sso-server none
  deny-message value Login was successful, but because certain criteria have not been met or due to some specific group policy, you do not have permission to use any of the VPN features. Contact your IT administrator for more information
  svc none
  svc keep-installer installed
  svc keepalive none
  svc rekey time none
  svc rekey method none
  svc dpd-interval client none
  svc dpd-interval gateway none
  svc compression deflate
group-policy LFM_Policy internal
group-policy LFM_Policy attributes
 wins-server none
 dns-server none
 dhcp-network-scope none
 vpn-access-hours none
 vpn-simultaneous-logins 3
 vpn-idle-timeout 30
 vpn-session-timeout none
 vpn-filter none
 vpn-tunnel-protocol IPSec l2tp-ipsec
 password-storage disable
 ip-comp enable
 re-xauth disable
 group-lock value DefaultL2LGroup
 pfs disable
 ipsec-udp enable
 ipsec-udp-port 10000
 split-tunnel-policy tunnelall
 split-tunnel-network-list none
 default-domain value LFM.COM
 split-dns none
 backup-servers keep-client-config
 address-pools value LFM
 smartcard-removal-disconnect enable
 client-firewall none
 client-access-rule none
group-policy LFM internal
group-policy LFM attributes
 dns-server value 192.168.5.90
 vpn-tunnel-protocol IPSec
 ip-comp enable
 default-domain value LFM.COM

tunnel-group LFM type ipsec-ra
tunnel-group LFM general-attributes
 address-pool LFM
 default-group-policy LFM
tunnel-group LFM ipsec-attributes
 pre-shared-key <key1>
tunnel-group <stupid remote IP that doesnt work>  type ipsec-l2l
tunnel-group <stupid remote IP that doesnt work>  ipsec-attributes
 pre-shared-key <key for site the doesnt work>
tunnel-group-map default-group LFM
prompt hostname context

Well I set up a constant ping to bounce tunnels off of their end to make their end have to look at something after a while of that it magically came up.
Thanks for everything.