Save email attachment to a MAIL server

Hello Everyone,
I created a form on the web with a browse button where the user browses for a document which gets attached to the email and then gets emailed to the recepient.
The problem is that I was told that the ONLY way to do this is to save the files on the web server first....
But why?
Why can't I just send the email to the recepient with the attachment, without saving the files somewhere else first.
Because the files being saved in a folder on the Internet, they are not safe!  
I need to find a way to send the email attachments without saving the files that I'm attaching to the emails somewhere else first.

An similar example would be when attaching a resume to a form, to apply for a job.  These resumes do they get saved on the Internet  in a folder which is not secure and can easily be accessed by anyone?  Isn't that against he law, or something...hehehe  I'm just kidding, but we don't want to save any files in an unsecure folder, we'd rather just send the email with the attachments and that's it...
Can you guys help me on how to code this...?!?

Here is my current code:

dim fileName
dim pathName
pathName = Upload.Form("file1")
'response.write pathName

Set fs=Server.CreateObject("Scripting.FileSystemObject")
fileName = fs.GetFileName(pathName)
'response.write fileName
set fs=nothing

objMail.AddAttachment(Server.MapPath("\angie\Files\" & fileName))