ODBC/NT/MSACCESS

I am writing this question in order to get quick knowledge from someone who has more than likely spent hours researching the answers.... But look at the amount of points I am offering, I kinda hope for a good answer.

I have access to and NT server. Lets say I have a database made in MS-access 97 (an .mdb file) and say it contained a table called "address_book" and 3 fields in the table called (name, phone, email).

I upload the mdb file on the net.

how can I (and what library/modules do i need) ....ODBC??
1. Search for a record with "joe Bloggs" in the name field. and print out his email address
2. Delete "anne smith" from the database along with her records
3. Add "john brown" to the database with his email and phone number
4. change "geof daniels" phone number to 333 333 222

thanks..i know the answer may be lengthy. please, I need this answer really quickly....

thanks people.