embed flash in emails

I am doing a newsletter and want to embed a bit of flash in the email using http to the flash file on the website.

When I open the email in Outlook 2003 I get a error saying that my security settings do not allow me to use Active X Controls.

Any suggestions on how to make this work effectively?

The page displays fine through a web browser, but it seems to have trouble with email clients.

Here is the HTML I am using to call the flash:

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0" width="200" height="218" id="oxygen_calculator_v1" align="middle">
            <param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
            <param name="movie" value="http://www.mcgrath.com.au/automate/emails/oxygen_calculator_v1.swf" />
            <param name="quality" value="high" />
            <param name="bgcolor" value="#ffffff" />
            <embed src="http://www.mcgrath.com.au/automate/emails/oxygen_calculator_v1.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="200" height="218" name="oxygen_calculator_v1" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" />

Thanks in advance