VPN setup hardware and software

I have three computers running the following: Win2k, XP Home and XP Pro.  I would like to set-up a VPN Server so others can log-on and access my MSDE database.  This will be used occasionally only so if there is only one connection at a time possible that will probably do.

I prefer to set it up on the Win2k machine which is behind a D-Link Airplus Extreme router.

What hardware changes do I have to make do do what I want?

Although I am not too tech savvy I will try implementing your software solutions so maybe we can skip that for now.

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by my understanding, D-Link Airplus Extreme router is not PPTP pass through router. so, you may need another router and setup dmz.
merdekaAuthor Commented:
OK, so it sounds like the router is the only hardware obstacle.  What is an affordable suitable router I can use.

for VPN, linksys BEFVP41 is good choice.

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