Have 2 Linksys befvp41 routers, one at work and one at home. After much loss of sleep I have established a tunnel. In the linksys setup, VPN setup screen there is a button to connect. It shows connected and the log and status screens show that it is connected. This is the only way that I can get it to connect. My problem is now I can't do anything----can't join the other network or see anything else on the other side. What do I need to do?