Unable to get flash header not to reload on a new page

I am trying to get my flash header / nav menu to stop reloading on everypage and only show the intro part of it only on the main page. I've looked through some previous questions on EE and came across this solution which seemed to make a lot of sense (https://www.experts-exchange.com/questions/21590935/Flash-Headers-No-Reload-No-iFRAMES.html?sfQueryTermInfo=1+flash+gono+reload)

The code specified was the following:

"Within your <object></object> tags add:
<param name="FlashVars" value="goNo=<?php echo $goOrNo; ?>">

Anywhere in the <embed> tag add: FlashVars="goNo=<?php echo $goOrNo; ?>"

In index.php declare at the top of the page:
<?php $goOrNo = "go"; ?>

On all your other pages:
<?php $goOrNo = "no"; ?>

First frame in flash movie:
stop();
if (goNo == "no") {
gotoAndStop(#); // Put frame number or label to jumpt to to skip intro
} else {
play();
}
"

I followed the accepted solutions technique however as you can see in www.mcxlphotography.com/mcxl.php , the header stops but not at the frame it should (this isn't the main page by the way so it should go straight past the intro). This is stopping on approximately frame 20 (which is part of the intro) and not frame 190 where it should be stopping as I've specified on the first frame of the flash file (gotoAndStop(190) )


This shows that the code itself is working as its reading the stop(); and checking the variable but it doesn't gotoAndStop at the right frame! How can I fix this!?