Deleting FIle & Database Record Using DataList Control

Heyas;

Ok, This is a very complex problem I've been playing with for a few days now, and I am hoping that someone can help me out. I am using VB.NET and ASP.NET 2.0. For my IDE I am using VS2005

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My first problem is 'finding' the button controls in the DataList control so I can assign the following actions, then when the user clicks on the 'delete' button in a DataList control, the following needs to take place:

1. Delete three files (a PDF, PPS, and MP3) from the server directory USING the filename currently stored in the database.

2. One the files are deleted, I need the database to delete that particular record from the database

Deleting the database record is easy, but I have no idea how to delete a file based on a field in the database.
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Ok, so this is what I have so far; two files

---------ascx file------------------
<asp:DataList ID="DataList1" runat="server" DataKeyField="FileID" DataSourceID="WebinarAdmin">
    <ItemTemplate>
        <div style="text-align: center">
        <table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="width: 100%">
            <tr>
                <td style="width: 100px"></td>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="Label3" runat="server" Text="File ID"></asp:Label></td>
                    <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="Label4" runat="server" Text="Month"></asp:Label></td>
                    <td align="center" style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Image ID="Image1" runat="server" ImageUrl="~/images/icons/pdf16.gif" /></td>
                    <td align="center" style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Image ID="Image2" runat="server" ImageUrl="~/images/icons/ppt16.gif" /></td>
                    <td align="center" style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Image ID="Image3" runat="server" ImageUrl="~/images/icons/wav.gif" /></td>
            </tr>
       
            <tr>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Button ID="btnDelete" runat="server" OnClick="Button1_Click" Text="Delete" />
                    <asp:Button ID="btnEdit" runat="server" Text="Edit" /></td>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="FileIDLabel" runat="server" Text='<%# Eval("FileID") %>'>
                    </asp:Label></td>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="MonthLabel" runat="server" Text='<%# Eval("Month") %>'>
                    </asp:Label></td>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="PDFLabel" runat="server" Text='<%# Eval("PDF") %>'></asp:Label></td>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="PPSLabel" runat="server" Text='<%# Eval("PPS") %>'></asp:Label></td>
                <td style="width: 100px">
                    <asp:Label ID="AudioLabel" runat="server" Text='<%# Eval("Audio") %>'>
                    </asp:Label></td>
            </tr>
        </table>
        </div>
    </ItemTemplate>
</asp:DataList>

<asp:SqlDataSource ID="WebinarAdmin" runat="server" ConnectionString="<%$ ConnectionStrings:Hacres %>"
                   
SelectCommand="SELECT * FROM [HMWebinar] WHERE (([PostDate] > @PostDate) AND ([PostDate] < @PostDate2))"

DeleteCommand="DELETE FROM [HMWebinar] WHERE [FileID] = @FileID" InsertCommand="INSERT INTO [HMWebinar] ([PostDate], [Month], [PDF], [PPS], [Audio]) VALUES (@PostDate, @Month, @PDF, @PPS, @Audio)"

UpdateCommand="UPDATE [HMWebinar] SET [PostDate] = @PostDate, [Month] = @Month, [PDF] = @PDF, [PPS] = @PPS, [Audio] = @Audio WHERE [FileID] = @FileID">

    <SelectParameters>
        <asp:ControlParameter ControlID="txtStartDate" Name="PostDate" PropertyName="Text"
            Type="DateTime" />
        <asp:ControlParameter ControlID="txtEndDate" Name="PostDate2" PropertyName="Text"
            Type="DateTime" />
    </SelectParameters>
    <DeleteParameters>
        <asp:Parameter Name="FileID" Type="Int32" />
    </DeleteParameters>
    <UpdateParameters>
        <asp:Parameter Name="PostDate" Type="DateTime" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="Month" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="PDF" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="PPS" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="Audio" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="FileID" Type="Int32" />
    </UpdateParameters>
    <InsertParameters>
        <asp:Parameter Name="PostDate" Type="DateTime" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="Month" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="PDF" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="PPS" Type="String" />
        <asp:Parameter Name="Audio" Type="String" />
    </InsertParameters>
</asp:SqlDataSource>
-------------- End ASP.NET file -------------------

-------------- VB Code Behind -------------------
Protected Sub Button1_Click(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs)
    Dim PDF As File = Server.MapPath("~/health/webinars/") & WebinarAdmin 'don't know what goes here
    Dim PPS As File = Server.MapPath("~/health/webinars/") & PPSField 'don't know what goes here
    Dim Audio As File = Server.MapPath("~/health/webinars/") & AudioField 'don't know what goes here

    If PDF.Exists Then
        File.Delete(PDF)
        File.Delete(PPS)
        File.Delete(Audio)
    End If
   
    ' SQL Command
    WebinarAdmin.Delete()
    End Sub

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