Maybe this is a 2 part question.
If I drainstop one box, I seem to have no problem up to this point. Once they are both running, the NLBm console, hangs on connecting to TS2 (example). They are Unicast with 2 nics.
Also, login times seem to take sometimes 20 minutes. Not always. I used Brian Maddens solution, to log the login process, but it just hangs. Maybe some dialogue will help me troubleshoot the right thing.