I cannot get sharepoint to send email alerts, everything seems to be configured correctly in iis 6.0 but no emails ever get sent out. I used the smtp diag tool for iis/exchange and no errors came up. I also believe I setup the proper relay settings but nothing works. The alerts show up in the content databases but they just sit there.
I have also tried the stsadm update alerts lcid 1033... command and still no alerts.
Can anyone provide any suggestions on what I should try.