I have set my.cnf to bind to my ip.
I have commented out "skip-networking"
I can't connect, it's probably something quite basic, because:
Zelda # telnet 192.168.0.35 3306
Connected to 192.168.0.35.
Escape character is '^]'.
EHost '192.168.0.35' is not allowed to connect to this MySQL serverConnection closed by foreign host.