Check which ports are open to the outside world. Helps make sure that your firewall rules are working as intended.
One of a set of tools we are providing to everyone as a way of saying thank you for being a part of the community.
There are no. of softwares that can help you monitor your MS SQL Database, please try this software http://www.quest.com/spotlight-on-sql-server-enterprise/ and see if it suits your need.
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