Okay put in simple terms, I operate a few different websites and I may put them all on the same dedicated server but I want to make sure that the mail server reputation for one is not affected by any of the others. I want each domain to have it's own unique SMTP server, or at least appear so to receiving email servers. So for example, suppose I have these three websites hosted at these three domains (each with a unique IP address), with SMTP server IP/hostnames being the same as the website IP/hostname:
website: domainA.com SMTP server: the same (domainA.com)
website: domainB.com SMTP server: the same (domainB.com)
website: domainC.com SMTP server: the same (domainC.com)
Furthermore, I don't want receiving mail servers to know that these websites or SMTP hosts are on the same machine, because I want to make sure that the mail server reputation for one domain cannot be affected by the mail server reputation of any of the other domains.
Is that possible on a Windows server? And if not, is it possible on a Linux server?
I won't be using IIS for SMTP (IIS won't do this properly anyway). So I tried both Alt-n MDaemon and Icewarp MerakMail and not only added the other domains but also set it to bind each domain to it's IP address and so on. But the email headers for emails from DomainB.com and DomainC.com still show a trace of DomainA.com, in this part of the email headers (I'll show it from both MDaemon and MerakMail):
Alt-n MDaemon, sent from domainB.com through domainB.com SMTP host:
Received: from domainB.com ([ipaddressB])
by m1pisfse01-002.prod.mepa1.secureserver.net with ESMTP; 16 Apr 2010 04:14:55 -0700
Received: from u1698465 by domainA.com (MDaemon PRO v11.0.0 trial)
with ESMTP id md50000000059.msg
for <firstname.lastname@example.org>; Fri, 16 Apr 2010 07:14:59 -0400
[Notice domainA.com is there -- I don't want it to show at all since this is sent through the SMTP server for domainB.com.]
Icewarp MerakMail, also sent from domainB.com through domainB.com SMTP host:
Received: from domainB ([ipaddressB])
by m1pisfse01-002.prod.mepa1.secureserver.net with ESMTP; 18 Apr 2010 04:24:31 -0700
Received: from u1698465 ([ipaddressB])
by domainA.com (IceWarp 10.0.8) with SMTP id APQ88925
for <email@example.com>; Sun, 18 Apr 2010 07:24:25 -0400
[Notice domainA.com is there also -- again, I don't want it to show at all since this is sent through the SMTP server for domainB.com.]
(By the way ipaddressA (for domainA.com) is also the machine IP address, if that matters.)
I figure that if there's any trace whatsoever of domainA.com or ipaddressA in the headers of the emails sent out by the SMTP for the other domains, then there's a chance that the mail server reputation for one domain/IP can be affected by the mail server reputation of one of the other domains/IPs. Am I right? And if so, what can I do? Will I have this problem no matter what as long as they're hosted on the same machine? And if so, what if I use separate VPS's (instead of actual machines), will that work just as well as separate machines?
And is the story for Unix/Linux any different? Or would Linux SMTP implementations behave the same as in my Windows examples above?
I understand about DKIM and SPF/SenderID and how all that helps with deliverability but I still want to keep the reputations separate and independent, so please advise me on that.