Email Template for Party Invitation with [accept] and [decline] button

You can just create a new message and under options select use voting buttons

Depending on your version of Outlook these options may be in different locations.  Which version are you using?

I am using outlook 2003, but I prefer to have something like the attached jpg
party-invitation.jpg

I am cope with the web design part, but does not know how to create the script behind the [accept] and [decline] button so that by clicking either one of them, it will send back the [clicked answer] to the sender's email address. I will actually prefer to be able to assign one email address for clicking [accept] and another email address for clicking [decline].

Hi, Timhkg.

This is possible, but quite in the way you want.  You can assign a mailto hyperlink to each button, that creates a pre-addressed response indicating their choice.  However, you can't actually send the message.  It'll display on the screen and the user will have to click the Send button.  The format of a mailto link is

mailto:someone@company.com?Subject=Cocktail Party Attendance&Body=Accept

the invitation email that I received, after clicking the [accept] button, a message window [Thank you] pop up and that is all. I found this way is much better.  [BlueDevilFan] 's solution to me is somehow only entirely automatic although I will have to do so if no other expert can give me better solution. However, I try to check the html source behind this email, it says something likce:

 href="http://www.mallesons.com/email/respond.php?key=1wi-83idis-3y297fa-x7cnhs&r=accept"><b><font
  color=black><span style='color:black;border:solid #009DD9 1.0pt;padding:5.0pt;
  background:white;font-weight:bold;text-decoration:none'>Accept</span></font></b></a>
  <a
  href="http://www.mallesons.com/email/respond.php?key=1wi-83idis-3y297fa-x7cnhs&r=decline"><b><font
  color=black><span style='color:black;border:solid #009DD9 1.0pt;padding:5.0pt;

I don't know if this extra info I just found will help the experts here to help me out. thanks a lot in advance

The hyperlink in what you posted is calling a web page and passing it the response.  This is a better solution so long as you don't mind the email being generated by what appears to be a third-party web site.  If you want the response to be generated at the client's computer, then I gave you the link you need.  You can edit the message subject and body as you see fit.

can you give me a complete script of these 2 different solution so I will try out both way and see if it works for me, thanks in advance

I don't know what you mean by "a complete script".  You cannot put script in an Outlook email.  I gave the text of the hyperlink above.  All you have to do is create the message or open the message template and insert a hyperlink in each of the buttons.

the hyperlink in which I post  belongs to one of my clients and what I am trying to find is a solution similar to this one. In other words, how could I setup this similar link/service in my own website so that I can use similar link in my emails. I would accept your previous answer as well but would really prefer to find out how to do the same as my client

Ahhhh, now I understand.  That would involve creating a web page that does the emailing for you, or compiles the results for you.  I can post a solution using Microsoft ASP (Active Server Page) technology and a freely available email component called vbSendMail.  Do you have a web server that supports ASP technology?

we are hosting our website under windows platform, but do not know whether it means it can support asp technology or not, how will I know, I just know our home page start with index.asp

we do not own the windows web server but share with other companies. it means one windows web server hosted several domain names.