tuning mySql thread & instance limits

Hi,

I received alerts from my CA monitoring that the instance limit for ss_goodnet
was breached while the thread's limit for vvvv  was breached.

Which are the parameters below (see the 2 .cnf files below) I should adjust
upwards & what's the recommended value to increase to?

After editing the .cnf file to increase the values, what's the command to restart
mySql.  Sorry, I'm completely a newbie to mySql.  I'm running on Redhat RHES 5.4


============== ss_goodnet instance ========================
[mysqld]
server-id=1
datadir=/data/mysql/ss_goodnet/data
socket=/data/mysql/ss_goodnet/mysql.sock
port=8003
log-bin=/data/mysql/ss_goodnet/log/ss_goodnet_mysqld_bin
local-infile=1
secure-auth
skip-symbolic-links
sql_mode=NO_AUTO_CREATE_USER,NO_ENGINE_SUBSTITUTION
max_allowed_packet = 1024M
max_connections=128
expire_logs_days=10
log_bin_trust_function_creators=1
#replicate-do-db=mysql
#replicate-do-db=dbnsconnect
#binlog-do-db=mysql
#binlog-do-db=dbnsconnect
relay-log=nscppdb1-relay-bin
log-slave-updates
slave-skip-errors=all
sync_binlog=1
auto_increment_increment=2
auto_increment_offset=1
wait_timeout=900
key_buffer_size=3072M
sort_buffer_size=64M
myisam_sort_buffer_size=64M
innodb_data_home_dir=/data/mysql/ss_goodnet/data
innodb_data_file_path=ibdata1:10M:autoextend
innodb_log_group_home_dir =/data/mysql/ss_goodnet/data
innodb_buffer_pool_size = 3072M
innodb_additional_mem_pool_size = 20M
innodb_log_file_size = 64M
innodb_log_buffer_size = 8M
innodb_flush_log_at_trx_commit = 1
innodb_lock_wait_timeout = 50
innodb_thread_concurrency=32
table_open_cache=1024
thread_cache_size=16
slow_query_log=1
long_query_time=3
ft_min_word_len=2
ft_stopword_file=''

[mysql.server]
user=mysql
#basedir=/usr/local/mysql

[mysqld_safe]
log-error=/var/log/ss_goodnet_mysqld.log
pid-file=/var/run/ss_goodnet_mysqld.pid

=================  vvvv instance ===============================

[mysqld]
server-id=1
max_allowed_packet=1024M
datadir=/data/mysql/vvvv/data
socket=/data/mysql/vvvv/mysql.sock
# Default to using old password format for compatibility with mysql 3.x
# clients (those using the mysqlclient10 compatibility package).
port=8005
log-bin=/data/mysql/vvvv/log/vvvv_mysqld_bin
log_bin_trust_function_creators=1
local-infile=1
secure-auth
skip-symbolic-links
sql_mode=NO_AUTO_CREATE_USER
max_allowed_packet=1024M
max_connections=128
expire_logs_days=5
relay-log=nscppdb1-relay-bin
log-slave-updates
slave-skip-errors=all
sync_binlog=1
auto_increment_increment=2
auto_increment_offset=1
wait_timeout=900
key_buffer_size=3072M
sort_buffer_size=64M
myisam_sort_buffer_size=64M
innodb_data_home_dir=/data/mysql/vvvv/data
innodb_data_file_path=ibdata1:10M:autoextend
innodb_log_group_home_dir =/data/mysql/vvvv/data
innodb_buffer_pool_size = 3072M
innodb_additional_mem_pool_size = 20M
innodb_log_file_size = 64M
innodb_log_buffer_size = 8M
innodb_flush_log_at_trx_commit = 1
innodb_lock_wait_timeout = 50
innodb_thread_concurrency=32
table_open_cache=1024
thread_cache_size=16
slow_query_log=1
long_query_time=3
lower_case_table_names=1
binlog_format=mixed

[mysql.server]
user=mysql
#basedir=/var/lib/

[mysqld_safe]
log-error=/var/log/vvvv_mysqld.log
pid-file=/var/run/mysqld/vvvv_mysqld.pid