Access Form - Formatting Tab Control

I'm using Access 2002 and I've inserted a Tab Control on my form to placr subforms.  The tab control is sitting on a white area of my form.  I would like to adjust the formatting of the control to remove the default grey color and to adjust the fore color of the tabs to a different color.  I've been able to make the background of the tabs transparent, but there's still a grey bar across the top and the tabs are still grey.  I'm prob overlooking something very obvious, but here's what I want to change.

a) make the tab control "flat" vs the "raised" appearence it has now.
b) make the entire tab control either white (including tabs, background, etc.) or transparent.
c) change the fore color used on the tabs so it can match the rest of the font color used on the form.

I appreciate any help with this.