jwplayer won't play vimeo videos without a paid plugin (apparently..correct me if I am wrong please). Video Lightbox looks nice, plays well, but in IE8 Win 7 64 the close button doesn't work or stop the audio. Video Light box also goes crazy in safari & chrome when sitting on top of other flash object is the page (with wmode='opaque' set on the underlying object).
So I am getting desperate to find a popup player that looks good and actually works in a page with flash underneath it. Any suggestions? (or fixes)