active sync error 3031sbs 2003

Check the permissions and auth settings match what you have in this article:
https://www.experts-exchange.com/Software/Server_Software/Email_Servers/Exchange/A_1798-Exchange-2003-Activesync-Connection-Problems-FAQ.html

Monitoring!  Damn you are quick MegaNuk3 : )

Well, if your article is the solution, then you get points too right? I have been posting it a bit lately and it has been the solution a few times =less typing for me and more points for you. Also hopefully it will mean you finish the year ahead of Glen, not that it looks like you need my help ;-)

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I do - and I am very grateful.  Unless Glen wakes up - I should manage to stay ahead of him.  So far so good although he is threatening to play catch up, especially as he lost 3rd place in the Exchange Hall of Fame to me : D   Holding my own so far - but have a week's holiday from Friday.  Hopefully still in #1 position when I get back.

Sorry HalCHub - hijack of the thread is over!

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ok so my site passed  
the MS exchange remote connectiviy analyzer but pushes not happening..

I'll leave the article writer to sort it out for you

he mailbox server [server.RAMAHDAROM.local] does not allow "Negotiate" authentication to its [/exchange-oma] virtual directory. Exchange ActiveSync can only access the server using this authentication scheme.  For information about how to configure Exchange virtual directory settings, see Microsoft Knowledge Base article 817379, "Exchange ActiveSync and Outlook Mobile Access errors occur when SSL or forms-based authentication is required for Exchange Server 2003" (http://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?linkid=3052&kbid=817379).   For information about how to properly configure IIS to support Kerberos and NTLM authentication, see Microsoft Knowledge Base article 215383, "How To Configure IIS to Support Both Kerberos and NTLM Authentication" (http://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?linkid=3052&kbid=215383).   This issue may occur after installing Windows SharePoint Services on a server running Exchange Server 2003. For information about how to properly configure a server to run both Windows SharePoint Services and Exchange Server 2003, see Microsoft Knowledge Base article 823265, "You receive a "Page not found" error message when you use Outlook Web Access (OWA) to browse the Exchange Server 2003 client after you install Windows SharePoint Services" (http://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?linkid=3052&kbid=823265).

I did everything it said and now I also can not get inbound emails.

Remote host said: 530 5.7.3 Client was not authenticated

Okay (thanks MegaNuk3) - have you checked the IIS settings in my article for SBS 2003 against your server because it doesn't sound like they are the same as I have posted in my article?

it solved the problem