myCommand.Connection.Open()
myQuery2 = "UPDATE tblMembership SET PasswordExpires = '" & Convert.ToDateTime(TextBox12.Text).ToString("yyyy-MM-dd") & ")' WHERE ID = '" & Label1.Text & "'"
myCommand.CommandText = myQuery2
myCommand.ExecuteNonQuery()
myConnection.Close()
you just want a update Date only?