The site will be a paid membership site so uploading videos to youtube isnt an option. I want the easiest most functional (be able to progmatically change url of file being played). I code in C# so any players that interface with C# are really what I am looking for. The more home made the better.
I have done tons of searching and I am not really finding what I am looking for. I currently have jwplayer installed but I just dont feel like i have the control over it that I would like to.