DDWRT-a like 300 mbs wireless router

Hi,

I just bricked my LInksys Wireless router (Linksys E3000) during flashing to default values.
Yes, I followed the instructions to flash it, no only a blue led is flashing.

Guess that's the name of the game.
So, I'd have to buy a new one. Therefore my question, what wireless router has following features:

-300 mbs wireless
-at least 4 gb lan-ports
-ddwrt-features, preferrably out of the box OR a flashable version which is stable (reason why I tried to flash back is because of a lot issues)
-would especially like SSL VPN out of the box (logging into a site ssl and having the option to make private network)
Note: I do have a NAS by Synology so other features are not necessary (file sharing etc)

Thanks for your input.
J.