Datagridview - RowEnter

I seem to keep fighting this irritating problem while navigating a datagridview.

One thing VB.NET does with datagridviews that to me is such a crock is that it always highlights the first row.
Why?  When you've got 4-5 datagridviews on a form, you load the form and you're sitting there looking at all of these selected rows...and for what?

So you have to unselect rows.
grdview.CurrentCell = grdview.Item(1, 0)
grdview.CurrentCell.Selected = False

I am trying to get a currentrow index on my datagridview whenever one of two things happens:
1)  User clicks a row.
2) User arrows up and down changing the rowindex.

The RowEnter property apparently fires prior to the row index changing.  I keep getting the first row based on unselecting the default row OnLoad.
I need the NEW row index.

What property do I have to use to capture the new row index whenever there is movement between rows?

Thanks.  Phil

Private Sub grdviewWebQueue_RowChg(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewCellEventArgs) Handles grdviewWebQueue.RowEnter
        If Activating Then Exit Sub
        If dvWebQueue.Count > 0 Then
            Dim msg As String = ""
            Dim index As Integer = grdviewWebQueue.CurrentRow.Index
            If (index = -1) Then
                OutofHere = True
                Exit Sub
            Else
                glQueueID = dvWebQueue(index)("pkid").ToString
            End If
        End If
    End Sub

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