There are many ways to learn to code these days. From coding bootcamps like Flatiron School to online courses to totally free beginner resources. The best way to learn to code depends on many factors, but the most important one is you. See what course is best for you.
The easiest way is to use SQL Server Integration Services. There's a component that you might use on this, Fuzzy Lookup.
Here's a decent step-by-step guide - even if you have never used SSIS before:
http://oakdome.com/program