Get more info about an IP address or domain name, such as organization, abuse contacts and geolocation.
One of a set of tools we are providing to everyone as a way of saying thank you for being a part of the community.
https://jackkb.net/securing-remote-desktop-on-windows-8-and-windows-7/
part 4 was the solution. Somehow the port was 3390 instead of 3389. thanks for all the good help.