SMTP
Server: mail.messagingengine.com
Port: 465
SSL/TLS Encryption: Enabled (but not STARTTLS)
Authentication: PLAIN (Our SMTP ports are for authenticated SMTP only; you'll need to make sure your software supports authenticated SMTP and also set up a username and password)
Username: your FastMail username/login name/email address (must include @fastmail.fm part)
Password: your FastMail password
Alternatively, if you're client supports STARTTLS only, you can use port 587 with STARTTLS enabled.
2013-12-26T09:00:40.652Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F4, 1,,66.111. 4.73:587,* ,,"Failed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 66.111.4.73:587"
2013-12-26T09:00:40.653Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F5, 0,,66.111. 4.72:587,* ,,attempti ng to connect
2013-12-26T09:01:01.647Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F5, 1,,66.111. 4.72:587,* ,,"Failed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 66.111.4.72:587"
2013-12-26T09:01:01.648Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F6, 0,,66.111. 4.70:587,* ,,attempti ng to connect
2013-12-26T09:01:22.652Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F6, 1,,66.111. 4.70:587,* ,,"Failed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 66.111.4.70:587"
2013-12-26T09:01:22.653Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F7, 0,,66.111. 4.71:587,* ,,attempti ng to connect
2013-12-26T09:01:43.647Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F7, 1,,66.111. 4.71:587,* ,,"Failed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 66.111.4.71:587"
2013-12-26T09:01:43.648Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F9, 0,,82.145. 212.141:58 7,*,,attem pting to connect
2013-12-26T09:02:04.646Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711F9, 1,,82.145. 212.141:58 7,*,,"Fail ed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 82.145.212.141:587"
2013-12-26T09:02:04.646Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711FA, 0,,82.145. 212.145:58 7,*,,attem pting to connect
2013-12-26T09:02:25.651Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711FA, 1,,82.145. 212.145:58 7,*,,"Fail ed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 82.145.212.145:587"
2013-12-26T09:02:25.651Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711FB, 0,,82.145. 212.142:58 7,*,,attem pting to connect
2013-12-26T09:02:46.692Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711FB, 1,,82.145. 212.142:58 7,*,,"Fail ed to connect. Error Code: 10060, Error Message: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond 82.145.212.142:587"
2013-12-26T09:02:46.692Z,Fastmail Outbound,08D0D02F6C4711FC, 0,,82.145. 212.143:58 7,*,,attem pting to connect
Exchange 2013 uses starttls, have you tried using port 587 instead of 465?
Regards,
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