Ok I may have screwed up a bit.
I purchased a UCC SSL cert for my domain/SBS 2011.
I made a request using the utility in IIS not Exchange or the SBS console.
( this is where I think I erred).
I have my request cert approved and stuck installing it in Exchange.
Since I did not generate it in Exchange it does not show up as a pending request.
Do I cancel the original and resubmit, a..in Exchange or another place.
Or can I get through this .
It only lists the external address for my mail server but can add other names (like remote.domain.com, etc.)