I'd like to copy the intended recipient on NDRs generated for all oversized mails ONLY. The problem is that the sender is not configured to accept NDRs, so when the oversized mail doesn't reach the intended recipient, neither party knows the mail was not delivered.
I know you can modify the postmaster address as a rough and ready workaround, but then you're getting all types of NDRs sent to the address designated 'postmaster'.
I don't believe that it's possible to CC or BCC the intended recipient on an NDR generated by an oversize mail (ref: http://www.experts-exchange.com/Software/Server_Software/Email_Servers/Exchange/Q_25274874.html
) but I do need to be 100% one way or the other.
If you need more information, just let me know. Thanks for your time.