In a previous post here:
it was suggested I use a outgoing email relaying service to get around having a dynamic IP address that's on blacklists.
I set that up for a friend's gmail account using windows live mail email client (and is set up as IMAP) and it;s working great.... except that her sent mail isn't showing up in her sent folder (which being imap, is on the gmail server). I totally understand why it's not working, but realize that's an issue for this and even for someone using exchange / office 365 - if you aren't sending out through the exchange / o365 server, it doesn't see it to know to save an email.
But is there a work around to keep the sent emails in the imap (on the gmail server) configuration? BCC yourself the emails and then manually drag / drop into sent folder?