Planing marriage and property distribution
I agree with the view that, this is the right time to start searching a groom for NANCY. As I had already explained to mother regarding this subject, The solution is, let get over the property distribution process, then we will get to know how much share NANCY’s family is going to own, based on the outcome we can make a better decision for her life. Apart from that, MARIA also in the pipeline for similar reason, possibly within a period of 1-2 years, the above solution will fix the issue once for all. By doing so, will get the opportunity to know, Do they even need any support system at all from outside. Moreover, As for as NANCY’s family concern, the property they expected to get, none but she is going to own it as no other heir to share it. Regarding MARIA, having $1 Million property with clear title in hand, which they can liquidate anytime, PLUS agri land which they are anticipating, aggregate of the both, would be more than sufficient not just for her marriage, even for next family generation needs. Now, If we go with your thought process for NANCY’s, then people would expect to apply same logic in case of MARIA also.
Having said that, Uncle categorically agreed to take care of all monetary expenses which would incur for her marriage. I made this to happen because neither he looked after BOTH families after their guardian passed away, nor done any justice yet to get their share of the property, and deliberately delayed to put all onus on our shoulders to take care them for life. NANCY’s Mother is typically outspoken, never told us so far, she had got any monetary help from him for their day-to-day life. Moreover, He doesn't even takeout iota of time to speak with her over the phone to solace them and tried to know the life they have been going through since Uncle passed away. I guess, He just paid XXX amount of college fees, not sure of the amount, beyond this, his contribution is big a Zero towards the 2 families welfare contribution. A person with such rock-bottom inhuman values, It is perfectly right time to put him in the duck and Let him paid for sins he made so far.For your info, I have been giving them support as 25K around for EACH family, annual total $100K, in mother’s cognizance. Additionally, for their ad-hoc needs, which I usually won't share with her for obvious reasons.